| The bodies of the three
teenage girls murdered by a fellow
student at Heath High School in West
Paducah, Ky, were not yet cold before the
students of the Christian prayer group
that was shot at announced, "We
forgive you, Mike," referring to
Michael Carneal, 14, the murderer. This
immediate and automatic forgiveness is
not surprising. Over the past generation,
the idea that a central message of
Christianity is to forgive everyone who
commits evil against anyone, no matter
how great and cruel and whether or not
the evildoer repents, has been adopted by
much of Christendom.
The
number of examples is almost as large as
the number of heinous crimes. But one
other recent example stands out. In
August, the pastor at a Martha's Vineyard
church service attended by the
vacationing President Clinton announced
that it was the the duty of all
Christians to forgive Timothy McVeigh,
the murderer of 168 Americans. "I
invite you to look at a picture of
Timothy McVeigh and then forgive
him," the Rev. John Miller said in
his sermon. "I have, and I ask you
to do so."
The
pastor acknowledged: "Considering
what he did, that may be a formidable
task. But it is the one that we as
Christians are asked to do."
Though
I am a Jew, I believe that a vibrant
Christianity is essential if America's
moral decline is to be reversed and that
despite theological differences, there is
indeed a Judeo-Christian value system
that has served as the bedrock of
American civilization. For these reasons
I am appalled and frightened by this
feel-good doctrine of automatic
forgiveness.
This
doctrine undermines the moral foundations
of American civilization because it
advances the amoral notion that no matter
how much you hurt other people, millions
of your fellow citizens will immediately
forgive you. This doctrine destroys
Christianity's central moral tenets about
forgiveness - that forgiveness, even by
God, is contingent on the sinner
repenting, and that it can only be given
to the sinner by the one against whom he
sinned.
These
tenets are unambiguously affirmed in Luke
17:3-4: "And if your brother sins
against you, rebuke him; and if he
repents, forgive him. And if seven times
of the day he sins against you, and seven
times of the day turns to you saying, I
repent, you shall forgive him."
This
flies in the face of what passes for
Christianity these days - the
declaration, often repeated, that
"It is the Christian's duty to
forgive just as Jesus forgave those who
crucified him." Of course, Jesus
asked God to forgive those who crucified
him. But Jesus never asked God to forgive
those who had crucified thousands of
other innocent people - presumably
because he recognized that no one has the
moral right to forgive evil done to
others.
You
and I have no right, religiously or
morally, to forgive Timothy McVeigh or
Michael Carneal; only those they sinned
against have that right - and those they
murdered are dead and therefore cannot
forgive them. (Indeed, that is why I
believe that humans cannot forgive a
murderer.) If we are automatically
forgiven no matter what we do - even if
we do not repent, why repent? In fact, if
we forgive everybody for all the evil
they do to anybody, God and his
forgiveness are entirely unnecessary.
Those who forgive all evil done to others
have substituted themselves for God.
When
confronted with such arguments, some
callers to my radio show offered another
defense: "The students were not
forgiving Carneal for murdering the three
students," these callers argued,
"they were forgiving him for the
pain he caused them." Let us
summarize this argument: You murder my
classmates, and the next day I announce
that I forgive you for the pain you
caused me! That such self-centered
thinking masquerades as a religious ideal
is a good example of the moral disarray
in much of religious life.
Some
people have a more sophisticated defense
of the forgive-everyone-everything
doctrine: Victims should be encouraged to
forgive all evil done to them because
doing so is psychologically healthy. It
brings "closure." This, too, is
selfishness masquerading as idealism:
"Though you do not deserve to be
forgiven, and though you may not even be
sorry, I forgive you because I want to
feel better."
The
rise of the theology of automatic
"forgiveness" is only one more
sign of the decline of traditional
religiosity and morality. As Yale
Prof. David Gelernter, who was severely
injured by the Unabomber, notes in his
thoughtful recent book, "Drawing
Life," the 1960's made making moral
judgments the greatest sin. He
points out that none of his pre-1975
dictionaries contains the word
"judgmental." Today,
judging evil is widely considered worse
than doing evil.
Until
West Paducah, I believed that Christians
will lead America's moral renaissance.
Though I still believe that - many
Christians are repulsed by the
demoralization and dumbing down of
religion - the day those students, with
the support of their school
administration, hung out that sign I
became less sanguine. If young Christians
have inherited more values from the '60s
culture than from their religion, where
can we look for help?
| Mr.
Prager, host of a daily radio
talk show in Los Angeles, is the
author of "Happiness is a
Serious Problem," from
Harper Collins. |
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